I read it about a year ago (I'm a sucker for self-help books) and decided at some point I would try out of some her resolutions and goals. Maternity leave turned out to be that time. January was a blur, so I started with February, the theme was "Remember Love". Depending on your point of view it was either the best month to focus on marriage or the worst (what strains a marriage more than a toddler, a newborn, sleep deprivation, a GI bug and urology boards all rolled into one glorious month?)
Goal 1: Quit nagging. Well, I didn't nag as much as I could have. . .but yeah, didn't do so good on this one. "Honey, it's your turn to get up with Leo." {accompanied by a few elbows to the ribs}.
Goal 2: Don't expect praise or appreciation. Well, not so good at this one either. "Honey, I was up with Leo THREE times last night while you slept."
Goal 3: Fight right.
Goal 4: No dumping (ie don't sit around and complain about your day). Focus on the positives. "Honey, while you've been at boards hanging out with your friends Bella has thrown up on me, pooped on me, and woken up at 4am EVERYDAY!"
Goal 5: Give proofs of love. I stepped it up on this one, buying him two boxes of Twinkies at the grocery store;)
Luckily, I've got the rest of the year to continue practicing. Love you babe!
Here's a pic of something that makes me very happy - - -
Something else that will make me very happy - - -when this GI bug finally leaves the house. But I'll stop there since I'm working on not dumping.